Over the next twelve months, I became obsessed with figuring my mind, body and spirit out, whilst learning and growing into a new future.

I submitted myself to coaching programs, learning guides, and A SERIES of conferences across the country. It was always from one seminar to the next and believe me when I say, in this, I learned vital lessons from ridiculous mistakes and decisions I had made and I ensure you that you will not be doing the same.

With a now 3-year-old son and an increasing demand from the world to make provisions and fit the status quo, I learned so much more about my life, my truth, and my uniqueness in that year, than I had in the past years of my life.

In a fair world, nobody would have to go through that but, even though I would think about this often and question the circumstances surrounding my situation, I came to terms with the fact that we aren’t in fact in a “fair” world and people have to earn their place. And if you’re a woman, my age, with a son, you have worked twice as hard to be taken nearly as seriously.

Eventually, as I continued my journey to self-discovery, I ended up in the midst of aspiring coaches and life mentors and that was when it all started to REALLY make sense for the first time.

I realized the uniqueness of my potential and the strength in my difference.

You see, I watched some of these students talk about becoming Life coaches, mentors, and Life guides, and the deeper we went into this conversation and trainings, the more glaring it became to me, exactly who I was and how different my path would be.

I did not want to be a life coach. I mean, just the sound of it would get me so bothered. To me, it meant that there was something wrong with a person’s life that needed to be coached and monitored and quite honestly, this never made sense to me.

I realized that there is purpose in pain and that, in itself is the most powerful driving force, not something that needed to be coached away.

To me, High-Performance Coach seemed more appropriate. The ability to live and be your highest self, through pain and fear.

Even though I had worked with Multi-Million dollar companies in the past, This was my first big revelation of who I truly wanted to become, and for the first time in all these years, I saw myself. I saw my purpose and I loved it!

Something about it was different; just like me and that? Made me love it even more.